A Step-by-Step Guide to Help You Decide Whether to Stay In or Get Out of Your Relationship

“Brilliant.”—Shere Hite, author of The Hite Report To make up or break up? Whether you’re just getting serious or have a long-term commitment, no other question causes so much heartache and self-doubt. Many other books tell you how to fix your relationship. This groundbreaking bestseller is the first one to help you choose whether you should try—or you need to go. Psychotherapist Mira Kirshenbaum draws on years of research and her work with real-life couples to help you make the right decision. She shows you how to diagnose your unique situation with self-analysis and questions like these, which get to the very heart of your problems: ·         What sins are forgivable and which ones are unpardonable?·         Is your partner questioning your opinions to the point where you doubt yourself?·         What is your sex life really like, and how important is it?·         Is there real love left between you, and how does it stack up against all that you find unlovable? Mira Kirshenbaum provides expert guidelines that are the key to making all your choices, concrete steps that you can implement right now, and the ultimate way to determine your personal bottom line—what you need to be happy. This remarkably insightful and probing guide offers advice that lets you see the truth about your relationship—and with wisdom and compassion, it helps you act with the confidence of knowing that whether you decide to go or stay, you are doing the very best thing. “A powerful self-help resource for anyone caught in a web of relationship distress… Excellent.”—Christopher L. Hayes, author of Our Turn: Women Who Triumph in the Face of Divorce “Few have written with such common sense and clarity about how to come out of the trap of ambivalence in marriage. I’ve recommended the book to colleagues and clients.”—Cloé Madanes, co-founder, The Family Therapy Institute

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Divorce – The Ultimate Guide To Surviving

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the divorce diet

You’ve no doubt been scouring the bookshelves in the relationship or self help section of the local bookstore or online search looking for the latest and greatest book on how to get over your breakup. I know, because I did the same thing not long ago. I was so overwhelmed with all the books, I’d retreat to the children’s section playing with the pop-up books until my breathing came back to normal and stopped shaking - I bought a hell of a lot of pop-up books. I read about life strategies and coping mechanisms until I thought I was an expert, hell I should have an honorary PhD on the subject. With so many books out there to choose from, I appreciate you picking up this one. You’ve made a very wise choice my friend! The most important thing to remember while reading all those other books from better-known experts is everyone is wrong except me. I kid! Seriously though, you need to decide what will work best for your situation and will give you the strength to move the f*ck on!

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The 10 Stupidest Mistakes Men Make When Facing Divorce

The Knowledge Every Man Needs for a Successful DivorceEach year 500,000 men will face divorce, and most of them make at least one crucial—and often irreversible—mistake. These errors might seem minor, such as moving out while things get sorted out, or thinking of “temporary” orders as being truly temporary. But when they get to court, these men discover they have put themselves in a terrible position. They may have to give up their house, pay impossibly high alimony, or even lose custody.     You could be one of these men.     But you don’t have to be.     Joseph Cordell, the founder of the nation’s largest law firm focusing on men’s divorce and the creator of DadsDivorce.com, has seen the consequences of the mistakes men make. Drawing upon the huge number of cases that Cordell & Cordell has handled, this book identifies the 10 most common mistakes that end up hurting men in divorce. Cordell demystifies the divorce process, explains what judges consider in making their final decisions, and lays out a road map for positive actions men can take to achieve the best possible outcome.      No man should face divorce without this book.

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Divorce & Splitting Up: Advice From a Top Divorce Lawyer

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